Someone I Love Had a DNA Surprise. How Can I Help?
A note before you begin: This visual guide is intended for educational purposes and is not a substitute for mental health, legal, or medical advice. Every person's experience is unique. Please take what feels supportive and leave what doesn't.
Supporting Someone After an Unexpected DNA Discovery
An unexpected DNA discovery can bring sudden questions about identity, family, biological relationships, trust, and belonging. For the person experiencing the discovery, emotions and needs may change from one day or conversation to the next.
Friends, partners, relatives, and other supportive people may want to help but may not know what to say, what questions to ask, or when to simply listen.
This visual guide explores ways to offer thoughtful support while allowing the person who experienced the discovery to determine what they need, what they share, and how they move forward.
Explore the visual guide below at your own pace.
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